I promised a friend a post like this half a week ago, but that's how things go on the blog, seeing as how it's not my job, but just a spare-time pursuit.
It seems to me that a lot of young people who are very devoted to the Church have a defective sense of belonging to their geographical parish. Some even seem surprised that I insist that there is any importance attached to one's parish.
I think this partly is due to the contrast between how well we have been treated by Pope John Paul II and how shoddily we have been treated by our parishes. Older Catholics, if they have a problem in this area, it is more frequently an overattachment to an individual parish at the expense of the universal Church. I am guessing that they grew up feeling close to their pastor and parish community and distant from the far-off authority in Rome. These are the people you hear about in Boston holding sit-ins to try to stop the diocese from closing their parish or even going so far as apostasizing to keep from being consolidated with another parish. With us it is exactly the opposite. When so many of our parishes wussed out of handing on the Church's traditions in their integrity, Pope John Paul stepped into the breach as chief youth pastor and catechist of the entire world. As a result we tend to feel much more of a personal connection with the pope and have a lot more respect for and loyalty directly to him, and more cynicism towards the local levels, which is the part that to us seems more like the distant, heartless obfuscatory bureaucracy. Add to this the fact that we were blessed with a pope who was an exceedingly virtuous and holy man, tirelessly and fearlessly dedicated to the Church and the Gospel, who was also very wise and intelligent, with great communication skills, and even really good priests have a hard time measuring up.
So perhaps you can see how it might come about that we have a laudable loyalty to the universal Church, but a defective respect for parishes. But parishes exist for a spiritual reason, not just for administrative convenience.
Your parish is like your immeidate family. You don't get to pick them, really. You are thrown together by lot and you have to deal with all sorts of different people. Given the choice people tend to segregate themselves into groups of similar and like-minded individuals, because that's easier. If you went to Maryland, you have no doubt observed how "diversity" works there (I presume it is the same elsewhere because people are people everywhere). This really isn't how it should be in a catholic church; it takes all kinds to make a Catholic Church. The parish system helps to counteract this, so that the particular Church is more of a microcosm of the universal Church.
Another chief vice of modern people with regards to religion is the thing where you "church-shop," tailoring your religion to your personal preferences and prejudices rather than tailoring yourself to the truth of religion. Now, obviously you can't "religion-shop" for radically different things (one hopes) by going from one Catholic parish to the other, but you can see that there is something analogous that could occur within the bounds of the Faith, and it is still not the best practice. Of course a Catholic can go to Mass anywhere, but I am told that in days gone by, if a priest caught you habitually deserting your parish to "church-shop" at his, he would tell you to stop it and go back to your own parish.
Now of course we live in a more mobile society these days, but there is still a virtue in respecting your parish, going there regularly unless there is a serious reason not to. And you know I am not just saying this idly because my geographic parish (while by no means a bad parish) is not my favorite one of the over forty Catholic churches within ten miles of my house.
If any priests read this and want to comment, your insights on this are most welcome.

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